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New Puppy Guide: Pickup Day, First Night, and First 90 Days

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Bringing home a puppy goes best with three things ready: basic supplies from a checklist, a safe space with boundaries, and a simple daily routine for meals, sleep, and potty breaks. AAHA says supervision is the single most important factor in house training, so plan who watches the puppy at each part of the day.

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The first weeks are a mix of joy and lost sleep. AAHA's advice is to lead with patience and trust: build a positive crate habit without forcing it, introduce new sights and sounds gently, and ask your veterinarian when it is safe to meet other dogs.

What matters most in the first weeks?

  • Supplies and boundaries. A crate or pen, gates, chew toys, and a bed, with the puppy limited to a few rooms at first, as the AKC suggests.
  • Routine. Regular meals, naps, and potty trips after eating, sleeping, and playing.
  • Gentle socialization. Something new every day, at a safe distance, paired with treats, as AAHA describes.
  • Records. Write down every vet visit, vaccine, and weight while you are still at the clinic.
Puppies usually need to go out after eating, after sleeping, and after playing, and accidents are never their fault
When puppies usually need to go out, based on AAHA.
Watercolor of a young woman training a puppy to sit in a sunny backyard while a younger brother watches

Before pickup day

Tick these off before you bring your puppy home. The list follows the AKC new puppy checklist.

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Printable before pickup day checklist: harness and leash, bed, teething toys, treats, dental supplies, crate, pads and bags, bowls, and gates
The pickup day list as a printable page.

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Frequently asked questions

What should I buy before bringing home a puppy?

The American Kennel Club's checklist covers a harness and training leash, a bed, puppy teething toys, training treats, dental care supplies, a crate, puppy pads, poop bags, food bowls, and gates to limit which rooms the puppy can use at first. Buy the basics before pickup day so the first night is calm.

Should my puppy sleep in a crate the first night?

It is your choice. AAHA says a crate is useful for safety, but notes it is not absolutely necessary at night. If you use one, AAHA suggests placing it close to your bed so your puppy feels your presence and you can hear when a potty break is needed. Never force a puppy into a crate.

How long does it take to house train a puppy?

It varies. AAHA says house training can happen quickly with consistency, but it may take several months before a puppy can reliably hold it through the night. Supervision is the most important factor, along with a regular schedule. Puppies usually need to go out after eating, sleeping, and playing, and accidents are never their fault.

Please note: This page is for general education only. It is not veterinary, medical, legal, or financial advice. Official guidance and phone numbers can change, so confirm them on the official sites linked here. We are not affiliated with any agency or organization we cite.

Sources

  1. AKC: New Puppy Checklist (updated August 2026)
  2. AAHA: What to do when you first bring home a new puppy (June 2026)
  3. ASPCA Animal Poison Control, (888) 426-4435. A consultation fee may apply
  • Pet Sitter Instructions: What to write down for a sitter, a neighbor, or family before you leave your pets.
  • Pet Emergency Plan: Kits, records, and evacuation plans for dogs and cats, based on official guidance.